count++;

if((x+y)>z)
return false;
else if(x==0&&y==0)
return true;
else if(s1[x-1]==t[z-1]&&s2[y-1]==t[z-1])
{
return InterWaving(s1,x-1,s2,y,t,z-1)||InterWaving(s1,x,s2,y-1,t,z-1);
}
else if(s1[x-1]==t[z-1])
return InterWaving(s1,x-1,s2,y,t,z-1);
else if(s2[y-1]==t[z-1])
return InterWaving(s1,x,s2,y-1,t,z-1);
else
return InterWaving(s1,x,s2,y,t,z-1);
}

Thank you for posting such great article. It’s something I have been looking for for many years.

I come from Asian family as well. I totally understand what you have been through. All I can remember about my childhood is my mom’s yelling and beating because of my bad grades. My parents keep telling me that I am useless,stupid and can’t ever do anything right even till this day. I guess when you hear something like this long enough, you start to believe what they say it’s true. It has terrible effect on my job, my personality and my relationship with others.

I am glad that you finally get over it and find the courage to speak it out loud. I tried to open up to my friends and hoped to find some comfort in them, and instead I got the same responses just like you did, which really hurt me deeply. That’s why I don’t really tell anyone about it anymore.

Your article really gives me a good reason to keep fighting.

Thank you so much.

Michelle

He is becoming something of a pioneer in the mental health field but I think his first and deepest concerns are about children and child abuse. He is very familiar with Alice Miller and very admiring of her work too but he also crtitques her for not going far enough and for being in denial herself.

I think his work is genius. It is intelligent and uncompromisingly bold and honest – well written without being wordy. There is a beauty in his writings because he puts things across in such a simple, clear and straightforward way. It’s like looking into very clear water and I suspect that for some, it’s too much clarity, too much information. His site is called iraresoul and Daniel mackler is indeed, a rare soul.

Check out his stuff on you tube – very accessible and just brilliant!!

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I feel like publishing it at my blog.

Pookie,
I hope you came back. Diagnosed PTSD, major depressioan and psychotic features… hmmm…
“Major mental breakdown”… I had one when I was 29 years old and the psychiatrist told me I needed therapy not medicines.
I hope you’re not taking medicines because they don’t help.
ANtiderpessants don’t help.
It is clear that what you need is therapy… not pills.
Take good care dear.

they are the reason bullying and cruelty prevail today… education and the promotion and or access of honest material is the only solution.

thanyou for your articles davinci… you are gifted with your approaches. your posts balance the right amount of emotion and detail to be influential and clear…

i hope you are getting mostly supportive replies because as a person who had a mother with a mental illness (she kept secret) and drinking problem… a mother who let my other siblings do whatever they wanted and only attacked me… your post is spot on… i cannot talk to my family today because they insit how my mom treated me was supportive… she did cruel things to me and it became normal… so the family joined in… i developed a victim mentality and continued to be bullied until i had a major mental breakdown… from there had access to psycologists… i was able to reconstruct my life… i was formally diagnosed with PTSD and major depression including psychotic features.

my point is… how these people think and how my family treated me made me think i was doomed, less than, destined to be less.. when infact without stress, i have a very high iq and am now very successful….

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tnx for your kindness